Who? What? Where? Huh? -- Introduction

Who am I?
I go by 'Mal' for anonymity's sake. I'm a twenty-year-old woman who has been exploring my submissive tendencies and sexuality for a year with a man I call Sir (more about him later).

I'm: a masochist; a sensation whore; a wanton slut for Sir; an exhibitionist; a monogamist; a happy housemaid and cook for Sir when I get the chance. I am a 'whole person' on my own, but my relationship with Sir enhances me and helps me to direct my energy in positive ways for our mutual happiness.

I'm also: smart; strong; a student who will never stop learning; aware of the world around me; a news junkie; a lover of all things Hello Kitty, cult-horror, and manga; an egalitarian feminist even though I take on traditional gender roles in my own life. I can act with grace and maturity, but when the time is right I can be as excitable as a little girl.

I am many different things and I certainly love myself for all of them. My desire to serve and make Sir's comfort and pleasure a priority in my life does not erase these different aspect of my personality.

Who is Sir?
Sir is a romantic, well educated, professional a few years my senior. He's also a nerd and news junkie. No one would suspect that this mild mannered man has a cooing and moaning woman tied up in his spare time.

He's very loving, very understanding, and posses more patience than I ever will. Although it's best not to be deceived by this, he has no problem reinforcing my place and punishing me when need be. He is most certainly a sadist, albeit a very sweet one until we're in bed or I've been disobedient.

How does this relationship work?
Sir and I met through Alt.com in February of 2007. We were looking for kinky play partners to explore our sexualities with. Both of us were out of relationships that were painfully vanilla and unsatisfying, so with nothing else to lose, why not try the internet? We talked for three weeks via email and IM, went on our first date and talked for 4 hours. After that we saw each other every weekend, meeting in hotels (but never having sex oddly enough).

Soon it moved to staying at his place all weekend, having sex after dating for a month and a half, and becoming a couple. While things have always been 'intense' and passionate we've moved slowly and carefully. We had rough/kinky sex and slowly moved into D/s outside the bedroom.

Sir is in charge... always. We function as dominant/submissive 24/7, although most of the time it's very subtle. This makes both of us very happy and I never feel 'oppressed' or what have you. We also practice domestic discipline (DD) as a way of dealing with unwanted behavior on my end. We practice behavior modification to enhance my personality and make our relationship more harmonious.

What is this blog for?
This is a place for me to post essays on D/s, BDSM, domestic discipline as I know it, and hopefully give a more day-to-day feel. This isn't going to be a very personal journal as I already have one devoted to kinky thing over at Livejournal.

I hope you enjoy reading!